Coco had been a gift from Maria’s partner for their anniversary. Maria loved Coco and depended on her dog for comfort when her partner turned violent. She never knew when that would happen, but Maria knew that Coco would be there to comfort her afterwards. She didn’t think that her partner could hurt Coco, until they did. Maria sought help for both her and the dog, hoping she could provide Coco and herself a future free from fear. For them, the story ends happy in a safe home, together.
Pets are often seen as family members and close companions; this is especially true of survivors of domestic violence. Unfortunately, this means that it’s a way for abusive partners to coerce, manipulate, and harm survivors. Ensuring that pets are safe helps ensure that victims of domestic violence are safe. Animal abuse is linked to domestic abuse, with it sometimes being the first sign of domestic violence. That said, only 17% of domestic violence organizations offer pet safety or shelter.
Maria and Coco were able to access the services and care they needed, but this isn’t always the case. 71% of survivors entering emergency shelter report that their pets were threatened, harmed or killed by an abusive partner. In many cases, survivors return to their partners because they feel compelled to protect their pet. Some survivors feel that the only way to keep their beloved pets safe is by staying in an abusive household. This is compounded if there are both pets and children in the home. 88% of homes where child abuse is occurring also had pet abuse.
At this time, our shelter is not equipped to take pets, however, through our community partnerships we are able to help survivors and their pets plan for safety in their future. My Sisters’ Place (MSP) is proud to partner with SPCA of Westchester to help survivors and their pets find safety. MSP Advocate Sara shares, “A shelter is more than just a building—it’s a vital refuge for animals who cannot speak for themselves and have nowhere else to turn. As we advocate for the well-being of men, women, and children in need, it’s equally important to consider the pets they love and care for. Providing a safe space for all members of the family—including the furry ones—is part of building a truly compassionate community. In the work I do, I strive to include and protect pets as well. Since they don’t have voices of their own, it’s up to us to speak for them and ensure they are not forgotten.” We believe that pet safety is human safety and that we all deserve a life free of violence.
As a community member, you can help support survivors and their pets in multiple ways. One is by registering to foster animals while survivors are in a time of transitioning to a safe environment. Another way is to volunteer with nonprofits like MSP that help both survivors and their pets. Lastly, your monetary donations go a long way to supporting programs like this one. Consider, donating to MSP today—even $1 makes a difference in the lives of survivors.
Together we can change the world. Together we can break the silence and end domestic violence.
If you or someone you know experiencing abuse in an intimate relationship, support is available.
24/7 MSP Hotline:
1-800-298-7233 (SAFE)
Text or Chat with MSP:
mspny.org/connect-now
914-600-42 08
(Available Monday-Saturday 10am-10pm)